REAL STORY

What surprised me the most was that my father cried. My father is a person who writes "han" and reads "man", but he also ran his own company, supported his family all the time, was like a breadwinner, a person who didn't show his weaknesses to others, so I've never seen him weak or crying. The first time was at my wedding. When I saw my father cry in the scene where the two of us were standing side by side and putting on a jacket for me, I felt, "He really raised me with love."

I was also moved, but after all I thought that I like my family. During the meeting, the planner in charge suggested it. She asked me about my feelings for my father and my girlfriend's feelings for her older sister, so she suggested an event that we could do as a family.

Actually, I also remember the scene where his father cried the most. After all, it was the strongest thing that I was able to reaffirm that each other's family is an important existence. I like my sister the most, but when she came to pick me up when I left the stage after getting dressed, she started crying. I was happy, or rather, I had a lot of feelings about her, she was my friend, she was my big sister, and she was always on my side. It was very impressive that he showed me tears and walked over here. During the meeting, the planner in charge brought it out, and my feelings for that family grew more and more.

We both love our families so much that we didn't particularly talk about how important family is. It's become a matter of course. But I thought that our stories were full of family stories, and that's when I realized. I didn't realize it was just the two of us.

We both said it well, but it was difficult to maintain the tension. Preparing for a wedding is fun, but there are also hard parts. We had decided to have our wedding ceremony a year later, but in the end it was postponed due to the coronavirus, so the wedding took about two years. Marriage wasn't the goal, we made plans after the wedding together, but there was a time when everything fell apart. I was wondering when this would end, but on the other hand, there was something that had to be done somewhere.

The planner asked me, "How are you feeling right now?" and "Are you okay?" I think it's because of the planner. Even when I actually met him, he had a very good personality, and he really drew me out.
At first, I was just thinking about things like holding a wedding ceremony for the two of us, wanting to create a stylish atmosphere like this, decorations, dresses, and so on. But in the end, what we really wanted to do was make us realize that we wanted to have a wedding with a cozy atmosphere where our family and friends would smile and look at us. That was good.

I said that it was difficult to maintain the tension, but the planners were also concerned about that and followed up on it diligently. That's why I thought it would be a relief if people who understood that planned it.

My father is a person who is not very good at telling such things. But I tried my best to write it. So I took the book and went to my house to ask about it. I was like, “Isn’t this kind of book definitely not good for you?” Then my mother said, "I wrote it in a very reluctant way" (laughs). Even so, he wrote it, so I cherished it. Why is my father so talkative? I was happy because I never received such a thing.It was a book that wrote a lot of things from when I was a child, so I felt that we were really raised with care. I wrote a lot about her that I didn't know about, and I wrote a lot of memories about her from when she was little, so the book was filled with the fact that she was a daughter that I had raised with great care. I thought that I had to cherish this person who was brought up with such feelings because I was going to have a wife.

On the other hand, my family exchanged letters, celebrated birthdays with everyone singing songs, and on New Year's Day, all of our relatives would get together and drink and eat delicious food, so that's how the book came out. It was nostalgic, and I was really happy. In that book, there were messages written by my relatives and cousins, a lot of pictures of me when I was little, and messages from my mother. I thought that my mother must have written it with the feeling that "Ah, this child is going to get married" while writing.That's why I think it's something you can only get at this timing. There are things that each other is too embarrassed to say in words, but there are times when we can write them down. I received it, so I thought I would cherish it for the rest of my life.

We were really close friends, seniors, juniors, and relatives, so it was a space only for the people we love. Besides, I was able to meet my friends who I haven't met in a long time, so I'm happy, happy, happy! It's been nothing but fun.

The whole family was staying at the same hotel that day. At night, all my relatives would gather in the room and talk about various things. From my parents' point of view, it's been a long time since we met our friends, so we don't meet them unless we have an opportunity like this. That's why my parents told me, "All my friends came to say hello. Tell me about the old days...". that's whyI think my parents were happy to see us, but they said, "I was happy to see our friends celebrating us." I thought it would be nice to have a wedding. I think our parents were happy in any way, but because of this corona disaster, we had the option of not inviting friends. But hearing my parents say that, I thought it was a good idea to invite my friends too.

Originally, I wanted to go dress fitting with my mother and sister, but due to the distance, there were times when I couldn't come because of the coronavirus. For the parents of both families, when they saw us in dresses and tuxedos on our wedding day, I think it was the moment when they felt like they were getting married. That's why I thought it would be nice to be able to show that figure to my parents on the day of the wedding. When it comes to impressions on the day of the ceremony, it was a nice point that the distance with the guests was very close. There are quite a few of my friends who hold wedding ceremonies in the Plan・Do・See series, but when I myself was invited, I was able to see my friends' sunny faces up close, which was the happiest point for me. My friends are close and there are no walls, so it feels good to have everyone come around me. I also think that the distance with the planner is close. There are many people who ask me, "Are you okay?" It was reassuring and reassuring to know that they understood what kind of wedding we really wanted to have and what kind of thoughts we had, and stayed with us until the final ceremony.

I think I'm really good at creating spaces. It's the same with the current distance, but we said that we wanted to be at home, so I guess they kept that distance. I think he created a space where it was easy for us to talk to our friends and for our friends to talk to us. Also, I think that we couldn't have an image if we didn't convey the image of the wedding that Plan・Do・See can provide before the wedding. But he told me about it during the meeting, so I had a perfect image by the day, and he even gave me a production that went beyond that. So I felt safe.

First of all, it was decided to do it with Plan-Do-See. All that was left was to decide where the venue would be. From our point of view, the two of us met at Soudou Higashiyama Kyoto during an interview for Plan・Do・See when we were recruiting new graduates. I proposed at the Oriental Hotel Kobe, and then I wondered where to hold the ceremony. At that time, I wanted to conquer it. We actually went to see it, and we thought that Fortune Garden Kyoto would suit our atmosphere better, so we chose it.

First of all, we both love that the space is very stylish, but I really like the customer service of the people who serve customers. Even if we weren't aware of it, they responded immediately and seemed to be having a lot of fun working with us. The building is stylish, the atmosphere is nice, the food is delicious, and I feel very satisfied. And that's true of any store. That's why I thought this would be a good place to hold the ceremony.

I think that you are absolutely involved in important timing. I think that a proposal is a big event for a man, and that's true, and a wedding is a big event for a family.I am involved in every big event in my life.Plan・Do・See is a big presence among us. Even now, when I go out to eat, I want to go to the Aoyama Grand Hotel for dessert, or for my girlfriend's birthday, I go to eat a parfait. I had decided that I would definitely propose at the Oriental Hotel Kobe. Originally, I stayed at the Oriental Hotel Kobe for a long time. Originally it was a long distance, so when I returned to Kansai, I would like to stay in a good place, even when I was a student or a member of society in my first or second year, and I often used it. We both really liked Oriental Hotel Kobe. So I thought I'd propose here.

I know a lot about my family and friends, but I think it's not enough to just have a daily conversation to make the other person understand.What I realized at the wedding was what kind of existence family and friends meant to her. Whether you're living with that awareness or whether you're living without realizing it, I think things will change in the future.

separator. After all, it was a part of me that felt like I had gotten married again after having a wedding ceremony, so if I hadn't had a wedding ceremony, I think my friends and best friends would have been stronger than my family. It feels like the atmosphere of a family gradually came out after a wedding.

I don't think Plan・Do・See will be satisfied with the current situation, but I think that the current situation is good enough for us. Even now, there are times when I want to stay at a nice hotel in Tokyo. At that time, I always say that I want to stay at Aoyama Grand someday.

When someone asks me, "Do you have a wedding venue, a hotel, or a good restaurant?"